SSDreamin
Almost Self-Reliant
DH has been VERY whiney since being out of town. Each phone call is 50% him griping - about work, about things not getting done, etc.
He knows better than to gripe about the condition of the house: I told him before we married that I suck at housework and he had two options. Hire a housekeeper, if that's what he was looking for in me, and save himself tons of cash in the long run, or keep his trap shut and be thankful I said yes when he asked me to marry him
A few weeks ago, DH shocked me by thanking me for listening to all his gripes, without complaint (OK, I would say MINIMAL complaint, but if he missed it, so be it ). He said he is frustrated, needs to vent, and feels he can only do that with me. I have to admit, I whine some myself - there are days I just can't do everything, and he gets to hear about it!
Waiting on the garden myself but, with all this rain, warmth and humidity, I wish I didn't have to :/
He knows better than to gripe about the condition of the house: I told him before we married that I suck at housework and he had two options. Hire a housekeeper, if that's what he was looking for in me, and save himself tons of cash in the long run, or keep his trap shut and be thankful I said yes when he asked me to marry him
A few weeks ago, DH shocked me by thanking me for listening to all his gripes, without complaint (OK, I would say MINIMAL complaint, but if he missed it, so be it ). He said he is frustrated, needs to vent, and feels he can only do that with me. I have to admit, I whine some myself - there are days I just can't do everything, and he gets to hear about it!
Waiting on the garden myself but, with all this rain, warmth and humidity, I wish I didn't have to :/