Wifezilla
Low-Carb Queen - RIP: 1963-2021
Dipping olive oil is tasty wen you spice it correctly. They have these neat little containers with spice blends made just for this purpose. I had one a while back with 4 different blends in the same shaker. Once I figured out which blend I liked best I just made my own.When I was in Italy, a lot of people seemed to use olive oil with some herbs for dipping bread. I have never tried it so can't say whether is is an acquited taste or not.
The IS some non-hydrogenated lard out there, but I have only found it at Mexican grocery stores.
Since you get plenty of milk, if I was in your shoes, I would make yogurt, and then drain that until it is the thickness of cream cheese. Then blend that with spices and use that as a spread. WAY healthier than any artificial fats.
For baking, if you can't find good lard, use palm oil. It is the same texture as lard.