freemotion
Food Guru
I'd check to see what you can do about filing some sort of report. Having a paper trail is VERY important in finally prosecuting someone. Found this out the hard way....even if a crime is really, really bad (and tossing a kitten is bad enough, but I'm talkin' WAY WORSE) if there is no "paper trail" then it is a "first offense" even though everyone knows in their heart of hearts that this has been going on for years, he just wasn't caught....or a dozen or a hundred people were too afraid to come forward.
You may be able to file a report without him being confronted. I've had more success with State police around here than with local authorities.
Always carry a notebook and pen and before having ANY conversation (in person is best, but this works on the phone, too) write the date and time, then ask for the person's full name and ask for the correct spelling. Write it down. If you have a good experience with them, send a thank you and a note to their supervisor. If they take an attitude with you at any point, pause and ask for the name and spelling of their immediate supervisor and write it down. Then attempt to continue the conversation. It usually improves. But not always.
I learned these lessons the hard way. Wish I had the name of that jerk of an ADA with political aspirations. I'd ruin him.
Ooops. Ranting. Hope there is something useful in that rant.
You may be able to file a report without him being confronted. I've had more success with State police around here than with local authorities.
Always carry a notebook and pen and before having ANY conversation (in person is best, but this works on the phone, too) write the date and time, then ask for the person's full name and ask for the correct spelling. Write it down. If you have a good experience with them, send a thank you and a note to their supervisor. If they take an attitude with you at any point, pause and ask for the name and spelling of their immediate supervisor and write it down. Then attempt to continue the conversation. It usually improves. But not always.
I learned these lessons the hard way. Wish I had the name of that jerk of an ADA with political aspirations. I'd ruin him.
Ooops. Ranting. Hope there is something useful in that rant.