Thank you everyone for the advice, and kindness and prayers.
I'm being the squeaky wheel.
No correction, I'm a screaming wheel.
I have told everyone I would have had a little more compassion for the guy if he had shown the smallest hint of concern for my children after he smashed into us, but he never once asked how my kids were.
PP, they didn't want to authorise a rental!! They told my DH that the accident was "still under investigation" and they told me they weren't sure if the guy who hit us was on the ins. policy, as it was not his car he was driving, but his BIL's! DH told them we already had the information from the State Hwy Patrol and we know what two citations he was issued. Not sure what the insurance guy (this was the other guys insurance not ours) said but DH went off and said, "So I'm going to be punished by not getting a rental after he was at fault?"
I think the insurance was trying to wiggle out of being responsible since the kid who hit us is apparantly not on the policy.
What they didn't know is I had already called the Hwy Patrol and I pretty much had all of the guys info except for what his last meal was.
The ins. co is going to try to stick it to us, I can already see it. They are not being cooperative, and they were aggravated because I refused to hang up the phone until they issued a rental. So we are supposedly getting a minivan today from Enterprise but they said I have to pay the deposit to get it.
So we got a lawyer. And that's all I'm saying.