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Women also died in childbirth from such things as toxemia, shoulder dystocia, placenta previa, cervix not dilating, or dilating so slowly so as to cause fetal distress which in turn can cause permanent harm or death to trying to be born... I have 1st hand knowledge of some and know women and their children who suffered from other of those issues.
Oh yeah, we do a LOT of things wrong as evidenced by our truly abysmal stats. But when something goes badly wrong I don't want a midwife, I want surgery. I want my child born.
I was going to go with a midwife with my 2nd son, but having had a C-Section before (a transverse breech that would NOT budge and heaven knows we tried!) I went to my crunchy OB to get a referral. I had my protein in my urine and high BP, it only got scarier from there.
Truly there is a time and place for everything, no pregnancy isn't an illness, but if we want paid time off then that is the classification we must live with. I'd hate to see us go back to a different time and place... The uniformed (whether MD or midwife) cause more grief and heartache in this one area alone.
And it's appalling what other people say to pregnant women, if they could just get a fat lip every time they opened their mouths at least other people would be warned!
I apologize for sounding so cross, but this subject just winds me up every time! I really wish more expecting women had more freedom, but I also wish they understood that their unborn children will live with the results of their choices, NOT them! Put another way, pregnancy and childbirth is the beginning of your journey...
Oh yeah, we do a LOT of things wrong as evidenced by our truly abysmal stats. But when something goes badly wrong I don't want a midwife, I want surgery. I want my child born.
I was going to go with a midwife with my 2nd son, but having had a C-Section before (a transverse breech that would NOT budge and heaven knows we tried!) I went to my crunchy OB to get a referral. I had my protein in my urine and high BP, it only got scarier from there.
Truly there is a time and place for everything, no pregnancy isn't an illness, but if we want paid time off then that is the classification we must live with. I'd hate to see us go back to a different time and place... The uniformed (whether MD or midwife) cause more grief and heartache in this one area alone.
And it's appalling what other people say to pregnant women, if they could just get a fat lip every time they opened their mouths at least other people would be warned!
I apologize for sounding so cross, but this subject just winds me up every time! I really wish more expecting women had more freedom, but I also wish they understood that their unborn children will live with the results of their choices, NOT them! Put another way, pregnancy and childbirth is the beginning of your journey...
Wifezilla said:Women died in child birth because nobody had figured out the whole hand washing thing until recently. Womwn giving birth in hospitals died a lot too untill they figured out what germs were.