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I am so sorry for your family and suggest that you & bro check out the altzhimers site....if you haven't already It will help you as to the progression and the stages they go thru. Plus there is a question & answer blog where you hear from other family sufferers of this type of dementia, often they are the caregivers of these parents. It will help your brother, who is still living there I believe, to deal with the fact that they really don't know what they are saying/doing with any real conception. And often gives some nice hints & replies for some of the questions/suggestions they will have. It's hard.
My mom would hide things, swear others came in & took it -- it was like an easter egg hunt many days __ right here at my house. Yes, she was going to call police (just couldn't figure out how to use the phone -- and it was one of the OLD nothing but 10 buttons type, which I had gotten to allow her to be able to even use prior) Hopefully they won't keep answering the phone as they will buy anything being sold!!! Are they having trouble using a TV remote, phone, even using the washing machine? Often they develop almost a dyslexic outlook on such "controls" & can't seem to remember/figure it out what to do as the brain tissue declines.
Sure feel your frustration and know it well. Start looking because one day before long you will need to have them both placed in "assisted living" and it is extremely expensive. I am only child, so no issues with siblings on decisions and many families do have that problem between bro/sis decisions. If one complains, assign THEM the job of caretaker for a while....they will soon be believers! It was nice of your aunt to recognize your plight and "help" you all to find the silver.
Your mom doesn't remember hiding it!
We will listen to the end!!!!!!!!!!! It helps to be able to tell what's happening and to be able to release any guilt. They can't help it and we can't correct it. That hubby of yours is probably very "in the know" from a nursing standpoint. At least he can sit in the hot tub & drink wine with ya, even share a chuckle at what some may think is your imagination.
CONGRATS on chicks. Yeah, it's gonna be winter soon -- no more eggs hatching, ok? Play with the goats. Milk & make cheese. I do lasagna with the soft vinegar cheese. Great!
Hope you don't get more of the heavy rain. Mud is not fun.
My mom would hide things, swear others came in & took it -- it was like an easter egg hunt many days __ right here at my house. Yes, she was going to call police (just couldn't figure out how to use the phone -- and it was one of the OLD nothing but 10 buttons type, which I had gotten to allow her to be able to even use prior) Hopefully they won't keep answering the phone as they will buy anything being sold!!! Are they having trouble using a TV remote, phone, even using the washing machine? Often they develop almost a dyslexic outlook on such "controls" & can't seem to remember/figure it out what to do as the brain tissue declines.
Sure feel your frustration and know it well. Start looking because one day before long you will need to have them both placed in "assisted living" and it is extremely expensive. I am only child, so no issues with siblings on decisions and many families do have that problem between bro/sis decisions. If one complains, assign THEM the job of caretaker for a while....they will soon be believers! It was nice of your aunt to recognize your plight and "help" you all to find the silver.
Your mom doesn't remember hiding it!
We will listen to the end!!!!!!!!!!! It helps to be able to tell what's happening and to be able to release any guilt. They can't help it and we can't correct it. That hubby of yours is probably very "in the know" from a nursing standpoint. At least he can sit in the hot tub & drink wine with ya, even share a chuckle at what some may think is your imagination.
CONGRATS on chicks. Yeah, it's gonna be winter soon -- no more eggs hatching, ok? Play with the goats. Milk & make cheese. I do lasagna with the soft vinegar cheese. Great!
Hope you don't get more of the heavy rain. Mud is not fun.