FarmerChick
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I don't put my life on hold for "what if" 10 years down the line.Beekissed said:I didn't know quite where to put this one but, since its based on the shaky economic future, this is as good a place as any.
I don't know about you all, but in regards to my SS life and my family's individual goals, we talk alot about where we want to be in 10 years....financially, geographically, career-wise and in our family matrix.
My boys and I had been doing quite a bit of planning about careers and colleges, locations of living, etc. that we felt suited what they may want out of life. We thought we had a few ideas kind of worked out and firmly in our plans.
BUT....we are starting to get the feeling that spreading ourselves across the country and trying to accomplish our individual goals alone was probably not the wisest choice in light of unsteady economic futures.
We had a family meeting this weekend and decided that they could attend colleges a little closer to home and maybe even attend the same college to help one another stay the course. Even having the boys share living quarters so that the two incomes make for easier living.
My oldest just got laid off from an oil field job he got 2 mo. ago. Great money, lots of work since they signed the domestic oil bill....then poof! all those jobs gone! We've had to re-evaluate how to support each other more by a change of plans.
I've been hearing about families moving back in together to share expenses. People used to do this out of necessity back in the olden days and, it seems, its beginning to look more attractive.
I'm wondering if you all are finding that being more SS means combining forces and changing one's mind about the meaning of independence? Independence from each other or independence as a whole? Will it come down to multiple families living together again, I wonder?
If I have a career or plans for a new future etc. I would pursue them by all means I could tackle.
I would not let this economy change my life plans, unless it was so drastic I had no choice.
If I was young I would still run to my dreams of my ideal future.
Being close to 50 now what I am doing over the next 10 is cut back wasteful spending, re-use, re-purpose etc. what I have and have a blast while living every day.
Banking smarter for Nicole's college and I want to be able to have a house fund for her to build later when she is ready.
So now is be smart over the next 10---but if younger, this economy wouldn't be stopping me at all. There are ways around everything when younger...lol-lol----just the energy level alone I would love to have again!