The part time job that I got thru CL that I posted about....the lady that owns the home where I work at the end of my street (4.2 miles up) is BJ Yost. Barbara works in the Bay Area as a Nutrition Manager. Her longtime boyfriend is my boss. Her mother lives in Murphys, in town, and is the widow of an ambassador.
I sent your cousin, BJ, a note about our conversation. She knows you too, and your 2 kids. She would look forward to a visit from you all, up here in Murphys!