It doesn't really stay that way at my house, either, FEM! Which is why it takes so much work to get it there...
We had a LONG day on Friday, but it was pretty good. The BF borrowed the flat bed truck from work and stopped by a lady's house to pick up a shed they were getting rid of. It is 4' x 8' and she was selling it for $200.00. I specifically asked her if it had any rot on it and she said no. The BF went to strap it down to his truck and the edge of the eve on the low side of the roof crumbled, and then he looked and found that the whole overhang was rotten, to the point where we'll need to replace the entire shingle part of the roof and the edge to repair it. I was really irritated that I'd been told it was in good condition only to find out that it wasn't. I wasn't as clear with the BF about that fact, so he didn't argue and haggle with her (he's not at comfortable doing that as I am anyway). It still seems like a good deal, and won't cost us that much money to fix up. I'm not terribly worried about it anyway because we plan on turning it into a chicken coop, and the BF will modify it quite a bit as it is, so we'd probably end up changing the roof out.
SO, now we're the proud owners of a chicken coop shed!
He didn't get home until after 6, and we needed to pick up KN from the airport at 9, as well as return the truck and pick up his jeep from his work which is basically AT the airport. We decided just to squish in the jeep with KN rather than drive my truck and double the gas. We dropped off the flat bed and picked up the jeep and then went to find some dinner and relaxed for a little while before heading to get KN, who was 45 minutes late due to delays anyway. That wasn't fun, and we didn't get home until almost 11. Thankfully my riding lesson wasn't until 12 the next day so I was able to not have to get up too early.
My lesson went really well, though Storm did not want to come out of the barn yard. He was fine until he caught sight/sound of everyone hanging out at the round pen talking and laughing really loudly, and he got really nervous. I walked him back and forth until he finally settled down and then all the sudden he completely relaxed and was fine, and we walked right to the round pen. Crazy horse.
He got a little worked up when we went get started, but KN helped me get him settled. She showed me again a method of lunging called Decarpentry that really seems to help him get off his front end. She also pushed me to make sure that I am working him at least once a week HARD. She reminded me again that he just needs the work in order to be calm. So we need to really get our nose on the grind stone and get it done. I checked the weather and of course its supposed to be crazy windy on Tuesday and raining on Friday which are the only two days that I'll really have any time at all. Fun stuff...
Yesterday was ok, the BF and I got into a little tiff in the morning, but I think we worked things out. I don't blame him for getting upset because he's stuck between me and his mom. With farm sitting for this other friend of mine, it takes about 20 minutes to get down to her farm, and about 20 minutes to feed, then the 20 minutes back, plus we had to take care of our horses in the morning, and his mom wanted us at church at 9, and the church is about 15 minutes beyond my friend's farm. I was not interested in going, especially since I've been getting up for over a week to bust butt and get chores done in a hurry to take care of the rest of my day. When the BF got irritable that he was going to have to hear it from his mom, I pointed out rather bluntly that she doesn't respect the fact that feeding the horses is a JOB that we get PAID to do. I made note that she wouldn't have given his brother any flack for having to go to work as a police officer on a holiday, so why is it any different when we need to do our JOB on a holiday? We didn't end up going, which was a good thing I think, we spent a little more time together. We also found out that the lunch we were supposed to be at was at 11 instead of 12:30 like we thought (I swear his mom told me 12:30 before...) we had to hustle and get everything together to go and stop by the store to get food that we were supposed to bring.
Hanging with his family was fine, it wasn't anything really exciting, though we did get to talk to his other brother that is away for tech school for a while so that was nice.
We came home and mostly crashed, we were so tired. But of course we had to go back down to my friend's farm to get her horses fed again. We were almost there and found the road blocked by a cop. Her driveway is right at a sharp dog leg in the road that is also on a hill and somebody had wrecked (again). We ended up driving around, then talked to the officer there (who it turns out we knew) and he allowed us to go through. Thankfully her driveway wasn't blocked so we pulled in easily. It looked like they were just waiting for the tow trucks to come, so at least there wasn't an ambulance or anything there.
We finally came home and made tacos for dinner and then crashed. We planned our grocery list, and go ourselves organized for the rest of the week. Its going to be crazy busy since we'll be out of town the week after. I don't know how I'm going to get everything done! I guess one way or another things will happen...