Lady Henevere
Lovin' The Homestead
I think it's because it's not used as good manners here (just as "y'all" is not used here), and instead it's seen as a military thing where the people saying "Yes, ma'am" are being bossed around. So saying "Mrs. __" is considered good manners, or calling out, "Ma'am! You forgot your wallet!" is okay. But "Yes, ma'am" is generally seen as sarcastic unless you're in the military. Same goes for sir.sunsaver said:Anyone with a brain knows that it's "Your Honor", but sarcasm? How does respect and good manners get twisted into sarcasm at the California border?
If you were to say it with a good southern drawl, you'd probably be forgiven.