Alaskan
Almost Self-Reliant
X2.Might help to watch a youtube video - maybe a couple of them. Once you get it right at least once it gets easier! Have a holder and a sticker. Good luck!
Also.... do you have a razor? If you shave the area it will be easier for you to find a jugular.
I find it is easiest if I close my eyes... take a deep breath, and feel slowly and methodically until I find that squishy pulsing jugular.
As @frustratedearthmother said, a second person to hold makes it WAY easier.