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flowerbug

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i'd say elope or do the courthouse quickie and have it done. if later on you want to have a ceremony then you can always do that. i've seen couples do it on their anniversary to reaffirm their vows and all that.

the finding a place to live in these times is going to be plenty stressful enough.
 

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I'm so done with trying to find a house!!! Nothing I suggest to him is good enough for lots of different reasons so I hope we end up living out of the car for a whole fricking year cuz then he might realize I had suggested some nice places
 

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no better way to know if someone is really compatible than driving across the country together.
Well, we have driven to New York and back and From here to New York then back to Virginia together before with no issues. I know that's not across the country but it was a good haul.
 

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I'm so done with trying to find a house!!! Nothing I suggest to him is good enough for lots of different reasons so I hope we end up living out of the car for a whole fricking year cuz then he might realize I had suggested some nice places
Hopefully you are just venting here, and that's
cool.
Compromise is an important part of any relationship. Not going to offer any other advice... 😀
 
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