homesteadmomma
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Wow, that's a terrible thing to do to someone who has worked so hard to make something and then to have them not even open their gift! I have learned my lesson too over the years with my own family. I made my Mom some jelly. It was elderberry and kudzu jelly. Both she had never tasted before and all she did was set on the bar and I was just over at her house last week and they were in the top of her cabinet never opened... My MIL we gave her some canned items as well and made her pumpkin roll and she says she doesn't like sweets or canned food.... then I went and made her a very nice scrapbook album and she won't even put pictures in it... I have quit giving handmade gifts to my family. There are very few select that get anything handmade that takes alot of my time because they just don't appreciate it. I have a couple of my family members and some of my neighbors really appreciate what you do for them and that's it. I don't waste my time...it's too precious to throw away on someone that could care less.. Now, if they get anything it'll be a popcorn tin or something really cheap and easy for them...justusnak said:That is exactly how my family reacts to the home made gifts I gave one year. I had cross stitched a set of pillow cases with Angles..and the words..."Angels on your pillows, and always in your dreams." Put them in a beautiful gold lattice basket with a soothing scented candle, and a ceramic angle. I gave each of my sisters one set..my oldest sister opened her and said..." Oh, pillow cases" My other sister said.." since both of our gifts are the same shape, I guess I can assume they are the same thing, I will open mine later" I was crushed. I worked hard on that cross stitch. I thought they turned out beautiful. The cross stitch on the reverse side matched the front. Not easy to do! So, now, they get gift cards, or booze. 2 things they both like more than anything. SNOBS!!! I dread the family holiday get together. They always want to have it here....and guess who gets to feed them all?? "because we butcher a hog, and raise a garden, we have it all" Their words, NOT mine!! Maybe this year we will be "sick" People don't like to come visit when you have diarrheaBlackbird said:Most of our family isn't even polite about it. If we gave soap, eggs, and jams, they would throw them out. That's what happened to the last soap I gave as gifts.
Each year we have a 'gift exchange' where we draw names and we must purchase $75 worth of gifts for that person. The price was determined by my ritzy 'high class' sister in England. So for a family member, when she was opening the gift from me, I joked that it was $75 of handmade soap. Needless to say she did not laugh.
I recently discovered these...Raggedy Ann dolls for my kids and a few neices. All from scraps, including clothes for dolls.
TheDish forum is a great soapmaking forum, and beer soap has been talked about quite a bit there. Good luck!Bettacreek said:Well, I know that my cousin posted on my facebook about her favorite shampoo was a beer shampoo but it was discontinued. So if I can figure that one out, I can make her some beer shampoo for x-mas. Facebook certainly makes gift-giving so much easier, lol.