patandchickens
Crazy Cat Lady
I was thinking... what about asking the girls what they'd like to learn? Say 'hey, everyone should grow up able to do for themselves if they have to, and not be stuck totally dependant on others -- what things would YOU like to learn to be more independant about?" You could give them some examples to choose from, but they could also come up wth their own ideas, and I betcha you could find some aspect of what they're interested in that you could actually do and work on.
Have fun,
Pat
Have fun,
Pat