2dream
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Even though I don't have a large family at one time when all the kids were small it almost became overwhelming and a tremendous financial burden with Parents, Grandparents, neices, nephews and on and on. So one year I just said STOP. I refused to participate in the who spends more Christmas plan. That was the year I made picture frames as family gifts with a collage of pictures from different events. I still bought the children one small gift but that was it. The first year my family talked about me horribly. OH WELL.... I was not stuck with major bills for the rest of the year. The next year I made jelly and bread baskets with other little store bought inexpensive items I had picked up thru the year, a screw driver, decrative soap etc. Everyone seemed to have fun going thru their baskets. After that it was a breeze. And a few years later they would individually pull me aside and thank me for them not having tremendous bills. Now my home made gifts go to friends who normally don't give us anything. It seems they can accept a homemade gift without feeling like they should have brought us something.