so lucky
Almost Self-Reliant
WBF, I can identify with your post. "Poor is just a state of mind." I like that. My DH and I have much less money coming in than many retired couples. But we are very frugal, and don't really yearn for things money can buy. (well, I do lust after some pieces of jewelry, but where would I wear it?) We very rarely eat out. We don't have cable. We don't have credit card balances. We don't drink sodas or hardly any alcoholic stuff. I treat our minor ailments at home, and we don't go shopping just for the heck of it. We do buy used books, and dietary suppliments, and yard sale stuff at times. My grandkids love to come over and help cook, tend the chickens, help grandpa with woodworking projects, go to the creek, go hunt fossils, have a picnic in the yard. DH still has the habit of running into town too often, but he is trying to be more prepared and cut down on trips. I absolutely love being able to throw together a meal without having to run to town for something. Sometimes I challenge myself to see how long I can go without a trip to town. I could entertain myself for years here at my home, not spending money!