Well, I didn't mean to offend you, but it's not an issue for opinion, it's a fact. From Wikipedia:
Welfare: "Welfare refers to a broad discourse which may hold certain implications regarding the provision of a minimal level of wellbeing and social support for all citizens without the stigma of charity. This is termed "social solidarity". In most developed countries, welfare is largely provided by the government, in addition to charities, informal social groups, religious groups, and inter-governmental organizations. In the end, this term replaces "charity" as it was known for thousands of years, being the act of providing for those who temporarily or permanently could not provide for themselves."
Welfare State: "A welfare state is a "concept of government in which the state plays a key role in the protection and promotion of the economic and social well-being of its citizens. It is based on the principles of equality of opportunity, equitable distribution of wealth, and public responsibility for those unable to avail themselves of the minimal provisions for a good life. The general term may cover a variety of forms of economic and social organization."
The whole point of Social Security is to provide for people too old to work. (Also, to get older workers retired and younger workers gaining experience, but that's a side issue.) Lots of people draw on Social Security who haven't paid in- Survivor's Benefits, as one example, surviving spouses, even surviving ex-spouses! Even *multiple* surviving ex-spouses.
And the whole "I paid in" thing doesn't make it any different from any other form of welfare. As a single working woman, I paid in tens of thousands of dollars in state and federal taxes. I got married, then pregnant, then we fell on hard times and got $300 in food stamps for about 18 months. So if we drew $4200 in food stamps, it doesn't begin to cover all that "I paid in"- which, to me, is absolutely, totally fine. I am not keeping score. I have paid in more than I've gotten out- cool. That's a sign I've done okay for myself. I have no problem with elderly people living indoors, with heat, and not having to eat cat food. I'm happy to help pay for that. But it's silly to say that Social Security isn't a type of welfare, it absolutely is. The only people who are well versed in public policy and deny this are, sadly, politicians and their apologists, who are merely playing a game of semantics.