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tortoise
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haha! Pretty wedding wouldn't be over $2K, got the location, tent, rentals, dress, food, decor (not much), photographer, honeymoon night... with a trip to Canada later. I'm cheap and fussy. I'm splurging on dress ($200), bouquet, and photographer (1 hour).JRmom said:BIG congrats on paying off your debts! Yes, spend a little on yourself, you deserve it. However, do you really need to spend money on a "pretty" wedding? What does pretty mean anyway? Not trying to be a downer here, but it seems like you've worked awfully hard to get out of debt, plus save some money... a "pretty" wedding seems like going backwards to me.
Edited to add: This opinion is from an almost-50-year-old who realizes now that the words spoken at your wording between your and your husband are worth more than any frills you have at the wedding.