examine your habits when eating or prepping foods. for me it used to be that no matter how hungry i actually was i would always make two sandwiches or have a second helping and there was always room for seconds for desserts too. now i have retrained myself to most of the time where i make half a sandwich and i can barely have a full plate of food because i can't even fit that in my stomach. the other day i wanted a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and i made a whole sandwhich and it looked strange to me - i did eat the whole thing. yes it was good and i didn't feel guilty but i was also really full when i finished.
i have to adjust my behavior constantly here because there are always snacks around and i love 'em all.
also, i know it is probably a really bad thing to reward myself with favorite foods when i finally reach a goal, but i have been doing that and it is working. kinda like a consolation prize.

months ago i made some black walnut cookies and put them in the freezer so where i could eat some every month (on the 15th

) and i could have one a day until they were gone so they didn't last too long, but they were better than nothing, but the deal was that i could only make them when i reached 175 lbs.
since it is summer and i'm more active i can lose weight easier and have actually made it down to 165 lbs, but that was stress related on top of things being really busy. i'm now hovering back in the 168-172 lbs range (i weigh myself once a week). wish i'd keep it down as i'd like to see 160 lbs sometime in the next few months or even next year would be ok. trying to do this gradually instead of doing it all at once. it took me years to get to 183 lbs.
i think the biggest reason that i'm doing ok now is that i actually do feel better not having so much extra weight on, especially during the hottest weather we've had. this is reinforcing the continued efforts to change my habits. the continued real problem i have is that Mom must have the AC on and that means i've not been able to acclimate to the heat as much as i'd like. any cooler days we have and i'm able to get a lot more done.
mowing still sucks.
