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Thanks, Morel! Its good to look back over the year and see how God has blessed us...he certainly has blessed YOU lately! :)

Today is a frosty, sunny, snowy beautiful day on the rent-a-farm! We all slept through the midnight marker of New Year's....aren't we the party animals? :rolleyes:

I never make any resolutions, as I'm pretty resolved on a daily basis anyway! :D Resolutions = long term goals in my vernacular.

Today I clean my room and my office really well, to start out the New Year right. We will have a family meeting and discuss all our hopes and dreams for the new year....I like doing this so I can get a handle on what the kids' thoughts are for the future, near and far. Also so they can give any input or ideas about my future plans.

Eli is pretty set in his mind about his goals but is having some short term goal issues when it comes to staying focused on exercise and wt. loss to get into the service. When he went to be processed in Nov. he had lost too much wt. in his neck and not enough in his waste! I know, its freaky, but they don't really go on wt. anymore....its all measurements and ratios. The holidays are rough on a boy who wants to stay fit....all that good food and down time! :p

Joel is out in WY....just being Joel. The poor fellow has grandiose expectations and delusions and then suffers mild depression and frustration when nothing ever turns out the way he plans. I like to blame it on the Asperger's! :D :lol: Most folks would have learned, by the age of 22, to have more reality-based expectations.....or maybe that was just me...I think I was born old. :/

Jon? Well that's a grab bag for the future, to be sure! :lol: It will be anyone's guess how that boy makes it through this life...but I bet it won't be boring! :rolleyes:

Me? Well, you know what I want to do...I talk about it all the time. Short term? Make this place pay and have fun doing it by adding some honeybees, geese, a few sheep and maybe a feeder pig or two for a short time. Selling produce and a few hand-crafted items and just see how much clear profit I can make on one little place.

Long term? That all gets tied into Eli's future. When(I won't say if~I like to stay positive) he gets out of school and begins his vet practice, I would like to help him with this. He plans to live a SS lifestyle on a little bigger scale than we have been able to thus far and he wants me to be close to help him do this and to help him raise his kids. He would like to keep his brothers close and help them if they want to, also...it will remain to be seen if they have enough wisdom by that time to see that SS is the only way to live! :)

Sorry for rambling on about family issues, but I always get reflective during the new year's. I always feel this is a good time to re-evaluate goals and get them set in your family's mind.

Have a good new year, folks! I hope we have some exciting participation on this forum, with a lot of pics of new gardens, new livestock projects, new energy alternatives and just plain ol' interesting, thought-provoking dialogue! :)
 

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Funny thing ... kids. Mine are 24, 22 and 20 and all moved out. I always thought they would be LESS trouble when they grew up!:lol:

They are you kids forever. It is just new (often bigger) problems and they still come looking to us for answers. It is fun and somewhat frightening watching them grow up.

Thank God for our kids.
 

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Amen to that, FF! It will sure be interesting to see what they make of themselves! :D

When I think about how far I've come since the kid I was.....MAN, what a leap!!! I didn't have a clue what to do with my life back then and was just flying by the seat of my pants.
 

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Yeah. Looking back I made some BIG mistakes, but all in all we did alright.

I say we cause I have been with my hubby since I was 15! (That is about 5,000 years... in dog years anyway!) He was probably the only thing I didn't screw up when I was young! He didn't quite know what HE was getting into however! The first year we were married I got a truck load of horse manure delivered to our townhouse apartment to amend the 4 foot strip of soil next to it so I could grow tomatoes! I think I was the "talk of the town" or at least the complex for quite a while. He thought I was nuts the first time I ordered 50 broilers to raise in a temporary coop behind his parents house.

Since then he has endured me buying horses to train, ponies for the kids, 4-H meetings, raising rabbits in the garage and keeping chickens in our tiny city yard. Not long ago I told him I was going to Kansas to buy some sheep. I had their "appointment" all set at the butcher shop, but he didn't know that. Usually the farmer delivers them for us. He thought we were going into the sheep farming business! I guess I really have him worn down now, because he just asked where we would be keeping them and how many we were buying very matter of a fact. He even occasionally surprises me. One day he came home talking about a discussion he had at work. It seems he was teaching the lady at work about Coggins testing her horse! Not bad for a city boy.

Times have come and times have gone and yet somethings never change ... I still want to be a farmer when I grow up.
 

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That is about 5,000 years... in dog years anyway!

*****LOL!! That is so funny!! I just had my 11th anniversary yesterday so I totally get the dog years!!!!
 

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BEE, I love hearing about your family and all of your ideas! You totally have me thinking. I totally need to have a meeting with my kiddos and see what they want to do this coming year. They get so excited about all of the things I want to do...like chickens and laundry soap and fire starters etc. I am sure if I made a list and discussed it with them they would be totally on board!! They would probably even have ideas of their own!
 

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Bee, please do ramble about your family. I had to laugh what you said about the 22 yr. old. We have 2 daughters 25 and 21 and we are surrounded by nieces and nephews from 25 down. Some of them know exactly where they are going and a few are just taking their time figuring it all out.
I don't think that kids grow up as soon as we did. Kids these days are a lot smarter in many ways, but some are lacking in lifeskills. All we can do is support them and gently try to teach and lead them. Oh, and pray! A lot of prayers.

Farmfresh, I agree, they are our kids forever.

Happy New Year to you, too. Wishing you all the best in 2009
 

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Looking around at our generation there are still a lot of them that haven't grown up! :rolleyes:

I think our children will do much better as a group - we are a lot more practical and grounded than most parents these days!
 

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Lot's of prayers!!! :lol: You guys are soooo sweet! :)

You know what I'm learning about plans? And it only took me 40 years to learn it......hardly anything ever works out like you wanted it to! :idunno Isn't it funny how that is?

I mean, I have formulated and dreamed of sooooo many scenarios that I wanted for my life and I now have a few, but not quite.....well, I can't put a finger on it but everything seems JUST out of reach. Maybe this is God's way of making us want to get out of bed each day...to see if we can finally get there on this day! :lol:

I always wanted a good husband~never got one....now I don't really care if I ever do! :p

I always wanted to raise my children on a farm and live SS~never got there and now they are grown...what to do with all this left over need to get back to the land? Well...spend an inordinate amount of time on a SS forum, of course! :gig

I always wanted to travel~never had the money to do so and now I'm so old and out of shape that I probably wouldn't enjoy it as much....plus, I still don't have the money to do so. :rolleyes:

Always wanted horses~love them to death~never could find a place, nor the money, to support one.

The list could go on.....do you guys ever have thoughts about why things never come around? Or do they come around for you? Many of my friends and acquaintenances have gotten all the things that I wanted~and didn't really appreciate them! Irony at work.... :/

My son, Joel, has always compared his life to his cousin's, who has gotten everything he has ever wanted out of life~you know the kind of people who seem to live charmed lives? One of those!

I try to tell Joel that there are people for whom things happen and people who struggle all there lives and never get there....he and I are of the latter group. The sooner one learns to accept this and be grateful for the little things and not dwell on the big disappointments~the sooner you can be happy! :)

I'm sure he will catch on....took me a long time also. Feeling somehow forgotten by God, watching other's living my dreams and struggling to just keep a roof over my kids....heck, if I had wallowed in all that I would have lost my mind long ago! :p

I told him its okay to stay a couple of days in Depression Town, but don't pack your things and move in! :lol: :) Get outside in the sunshine, take a deep breath and think of all the things you DO have that even other folks don't have!

I've noticed that, often times, the people who have always had everything, aren't happy about anything~and people who never had anything, are often happy about everything! :D
 
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