Oh, FD. I wish I lived closer. I'd bring you some Italian prunes (my tree is laden with them this year), some hugs, we could figure out a way to get the meds needed more cheaply, we could go to the beach and share a bottle of wine, I could meet your goats and your DD.
I don't know your SO, nor did I belong to this forum when you were having issues with him. But I do know that this intolerable heat brings me so down down down. I can't even go outside to water, cus every freaking day for over a week its been close to 100 degrees. Today is supposed to be about 94. We can't cool the house down even with windows open all nite. Right now its 76 in the house, but 72 outside. (9 a.m. PST). whoopie. Its probably contributing to his issues.
I used to live in NY. Went to high school there in Rochester NY. Don't know if I'd like it now as an adult tho.