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I love my mother. I really do. I am beginning to kinda understand what it must be like to get old. People have a tendancy to treat you like you dont know anything, they tend to treat you like you are feeble-minded and they also tend to treat you like you are not needed.
That being said, I canned strawberry jam with my mother on Sunday, we also made a batch of plums. I was explaining to her that I have felt the urge to can and stock because this world we live in just feel like it is going down the tubes. I explained that I felt the need to make sure I was prepared when all my kids come home because of......THE CALAMITY, whatever that is, happens. I should have kept my mouth shut. My mother is a gung ho type woman, if you give her an inch she will take a mile. I wanted to be a good daughter and do something worthwhile with my mom. That is why we canned. She really enjoyed it too. She enjoyed our talk too.
I didnt sleep good last nite, I ate icecream before bed and it didnt agree with me. I wasnt able to go to sleep until about 130am. I am tired. I am feeling cranky. I am thinking of all the things I need to do. AND I still have diarrhea from the ice cream. So here is the rub....
I am at work...switchboard rings..Its my mom and she tells me that she was going to buy me a half bushel each of tomatoes and peaches for us to can this weekend. But when she got home she looked in the bag and saw that the vendor had put all tomatoes in it. So, guess what, we are doing tomatoes.
She has a whole bushel of TOMATOES. I do not even like tomatoes, I tolerate them, but they are not top of my favorite list.
I told her that I am not doing them this weekend because I try not to do work on the weekends. We will do them tonight because that is the only night I will have time. She says fine call me when you get home from work. Then to add insult to injury she tells me I need to pick up celery at the store. SHEESH, first the kid, then the chickens and now my mom. I am tired. I cant even get out a LOL. Or click on a smilie
 

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Ah yes, a mother's special brand of unhelpful help :p I feel for ya :)

One thing you could try with the tomatoes, as being somewhat less work: wash 'em, remove any stems left on, cut out any bad parts, then place in a tightly packed single layer in roasting pans or casseroles (not just a baking sheet, you need side walls) and bake for 3-4 hrs at 350 F til tomatoes are starting to blacken a little bit and are reduced in size by maybe a third. Then run 'em thru a food mill to get out the seeds and skins, it goes really quick b/c they're all mooshy by then.

Makes a GREAT-tasting, low work input tomato puree, roughly the consistency of commercial jars of spaghetti sauce. You can either freeze it, or acidulate it somewhat for safety and can it.

Warning, if you do an entire ovenful (about half a bushel, for me) at one time, it steams your house up something fierce if you don't have a vent fan over your stove and forget to crack windows open :p

Good luck,

Pat
 

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wow! She sounds like she's really sensitive to what you are trying to do here--even buying stuff for you to can together. That's wonderful that she's supporting what is important to you in a way that gives you precious time together. Canning IS a lot of work though, hey? I would love it if my mom came to can with me :)
 

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me&thegals said:
wow! She sounds like she's really sensitive to what you are trying to do here--even buying stuff for you to can together. That's wonderful that she's supporting what is important to you in a way that gives you precious time together. Canning IS a lot of work though, hey? I would love it if my mom came to can with me :)
She is wonderful like I said- I love my mom.

Next time she does this (and their will be a next time) I will send her your way. now I can LOL
 

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Sounds like your Mom has an agenda- for your own good whether you like it or not...... My Father was the same way. If you asked for something, you generally got it but his way. Too bad about the peaches though- I love canned peaches. But I like tomato sauce too.
 

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HA HA HA
I hear ya on this one. My parents are the same.....I love the help they give me....I just wish it was on more of my terms or on my time schedule.

Smile and have fun with your Mom and enjoy the moment of canning a zillion tomatoes...LOL----here, I will LOL for you! :)

I mentioned to Dad I wanted to stain the back porch, well, yup, within 1 day I get the call, he got the rollers, will pick up stain and will be over in 2 days to start....yee-gads, I had plans....but I put them on hold and we got it done and all was good. I just hold my breath thru the project...whatever it may be..HA HA

You have a great MOM!!! :)
 

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I remember some of the best times were when my whole family was involved in canning beans, puttin up corn, etc. Even after I got married and thought I had other things to do, I would schlep over and help. I'm soooo glad I did. I learned so much and we always had a good time. My mom is gone now, but my dad and I still can together every year. My sister always has something else to do. She is the one who is missing out. So hunker down and roll up your sleeves. I'll bet you will be glad you did. ;)
 

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Farmerchick, My father is exactly like that also. One time I told my father I had to paint the liv room ceiling. Two days later I came home from work just as he was finishing up. I really have to watch what I say around him.

I know, I know. Have fun, enjoy her visit. But next it will be the peaches, then beans, then beets and pickled beets etc, etc and it wont stop til they go to florida. Do ya ken what I am saying? LOL I am already resigned...and thats ok, I am still tired tho.
 

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LOL---hey that is great the ceiling was painted...it was done for you! HA HA

I do know exactly what you mean.....NEVER ending cause they have the time to devote to ONE project. My parents being retired, my Dad has a million projects, BUT he will stop them and concentrate on ME......lucky me..HA HA

Mom always takes things too far also. I say I want to buy "whatever" and the next thing I know "she" is "shopping" for me..LOL..sometimes it takes the fun out of it........but again, we just gotta say, OH WELL, and move on.

Sounds like you surely need a good nights sleep. I don't sleep much and it makes a huge difference in my attitude about anything. Sleep is so super important so first chance ya get (whenever that may be..lol) lay down and sleep!!!!---easier said than done but sometimes I must just "shut the door" and sleep and bit and I am human again.
 

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OMG, they could be cut from the same cloth.It is like hearing an echo. If I tell mom that I might try some pressure cooking, next thing I know she has bought me (garage sales thank god) two or three of them :ep. I mentioned I might try to paint a scene with the chickens in the yard this winter, shame on me because she has bought me three boxes of paint :th. Yeah, gotta love'em. I tell them not to, but they do anyway.
 
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