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Sufficient Life
Miss the north- you can't really start a war with Canadians- they're generally to nice to stay mad at them for long.lol
ScottyG- This is the fundamental divide once all the ranting is over- if your friend does have the resources to pay the $1000 oer month, then I do believe he should pay it if means he lives on Mac and Chesse and oatmeal, etc and never sees a restaurant meal- even if it means he can't take a vacation or buy fancy clothes etc. He should take care of himself til he has used everything he has.
Of course I do not know his situation in full but unless I can really know the full situation, I can not say what is proper.
There was an interview on TV with a woman who had cancer and had spent about $78000 of her own money on various things not covered under her health care plan. She stood in front of her really big, nice house, puttering in her rose garden while she complained to the reporter that she should not have had to put her "future" at risk by spending all but $10,000 dollars of her savings on neccessary care.
After my eyebrows were pried down from their extremely surprised level, I thought the -well-lady, yes that is why your savings are there- to save your life if needed. I don't care if your heirs don't get it or that you can't get that new car or many other things..
So many people treat money they have saved or earned as only something to give themselves a reward or to keep til death because it makes them feel secure. But it is not fair of them to expect me to live poorly to pay when they can pay themselves. Too many people will not be prudent in their lives, will not have enough insurance to cover the "damage" due to unforseen things- they buy the car with leather seats first and then have a vague iidea that they will be taken care of if something bad happens. And complain when it causes them problems. A bad case of what's theirs is theirs and what's mine is their'sd\.
In my life, I have seen a lot people who simply broke their glasses when they wanted new ones if Medicaide paid for them or left their children with a state agency when they wanted to go on vacation or stuff a disabled child into nursing home when they wanted tor travel or take money under the table when on welfare. Who always have money for smoking or pot but not to keep their children clean. There are always people to take advantage, lie and cheat.
So that people who really do need the money are tarred with the same brush - they can't always get what the need because too many people take what they want.
Made a mess of everything I think- gives people an excuse to not provide for others. Trouble is that I think it is a basically valid excuse.
edit- dang dang dang- I am so wordy and my system so slow that the world has marched on by the time I can get a post done.
ScottyG- This is the fundamental divide once all the ranting is over- if your friend does have the resources to pay the $1000 oer month, then I do believe he should pay it if means he lives on Mac and Chesse and oatmeal, etc and never sees a restaurant meal- even if it means he can't take a vacation or buy fancy clothes etc. He should take care of himself til he has used everything he has.
Of course I do not know his situation in full but unless I can really know the full situation, I can not say what is proper.
There was an interview on TV with a woman who had cancer and had spent about $78000 of her own money on various things not covered under her health care plan. She stood in front of her really big, nice house, puttering in her rose garden while she complained to the reporter that she should not have had to put her "future" at risk by spending all but $10,000 dollars of her savings on neccessary care.
After my eyebrows were pried down from their extremely surprised level, I thought the -well-lady, yes that is why your savings are there- to save your life if needed. I don't care if your heirs don't get it or that you can't get that new car or many other things..
So many people treat money they have saved or earned as only something to give themselves a reward or to keep til death because it makes them feel secure. But it is not fair of them to expect me to live poorly to pay when they can pay themselves. Too many people will not be prudent in their lives, will not have enough insurance to cover the "damage" due to unforseen things- they buy the car with leather seats first and then have a vague iidea that they will be taken care of if something bad happens. And complain when it causes them problems. A bad case of what's theirs is theirs and what's mine is their'sd\.
In my life, I have seen a lot people who simply broke their glasses when they wanted new ones if Medicaide paid for them or left their children with a state agency when they wanted to go on vacation or stuff a disabled child into nursing home when they wanted tor travel or take money under the table when on welfare. Who always have money for smoking or pot but not to keep their children clean. There are always people to take advantage, lie and cheat.
So that people who really do need the money are tarred with the same brush - they can't always get what the need because too many people take what they want.
Made a mess of everything I think- gives people an excuse to not provide for others. Trouble is that I think it is a basically valid excuse.
edit- dang dang dang- I am so wordy and my system so slow that the world has marched on by the time I can get a post done.