patandchickens
Crazy Cat Lady
Yeah, and it's not like our society doesn't support doing personally-difficult things sometimes... I mean, quitting smoking seems generally-accepted as an often severe test of willpower, but if you tell people you're working on it, they're usually like "way to go, hang in there, you've done so well to go a whole week without a cigarette, you can do it!".
Whereas if you tell people you're working on, say, keeping your family fed for $25 a week, or not buying any 'new' clothes or toys, there is NO comparable level of respect and support. To say the least.
In my opinion a lot of it is the legacy of long-ingrained class/culture/race distinctions, leading to a vague general feeling of "our sort of people don't *do* that sort of thing". Understandable that this can't be kicked in just a few generations... but, a problem nonetheless.
I know, I know, there is the argument that we all have to keep spending so the juggling balls will all stay up in the air and not come crashing down. But I honestly don't see how you can have substantial, lasting economic security for a *country* (or planet) if you don't have substantial lasting economic security for its individual citizens, and I just think that spending less and wanting less (which, of course, allow more savings) are a pretty basic part of substantial lasting economic security.
JMHO,
Pat
Whereas if you tell people you're working on, say, keeping your family fed for $25 a week, or not buying any 'new' clothes or toys, there is NO comparable level of respect and support. To say the least.
In my opinion a lot of it is the legacy of long-ingrained class/culture/race distinctions, leading to a vague general feeling of "our sort of people don't *do* that sort of thing". Understandable that this can't be kicked in just a few generations... but, a problem nonetheless.
I know, I know, there is the argument that we all have to keep spending so the juggling balls will all stay up in the air and not come crashing down. But I honestly don't see how you can have substantial, lasting economic security for a *country* (or planet) if you don't have substantial lasting economic security for its individual citizens, and I just think that spending less and wanting less (which, of course, allow more savings) are a pretty basic part of substantial lasting economic security.
JMHO,
Pat