Bimpnottin
Lovin' The Homestead
Deep breath.
Pray.
List out the pros and cons.
Talk to everyone involved.
Pray.
Get everything in writing - possibly looked at by a lawyer, especially concerning money and the "someone else is going to pay for this"
Pray.
Kudos to you for considering it. Make sure that it's not only going to be the best decision for you and your family, but also for the kids.