Wifezilla's Rampage - Weekend Update w/ pics

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At home, after almost 20 years, we've figured out where the boundaries are. She thinks I'm the typical stupid husband, and I quietly agree with her. :D

hehe, DW and I will be working a fundraising concession stand at the area open-air concert venue 9-12 concerts this summer. I'm going to be dead before the summer is over. :hide
 

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Jamie-I'm seriously not a man basher. I love men. I love my DH. I adore my son. But sometimes. Hoo boy. I'm sure I drive him just as batty :D
 

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:lol: I get it.

We just approach problems differently, I've learned to ask "what am I not understanding?" in an given situation, and after the blah-blah-blah stops, we can move on.... :lol:

JUST KIDDING, it boils down to communications....
 

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FarmerJamie said:
:lol: I get it.

We just approach problems differently, I've learned to ask "what am I not understanding?" in an given situation, and after the blah-blah-blah stops, we can move on.... :lol:

JUST KIDDING, it boils down to communications....
With my first ex it wasnt what did i miss but "oh geez NOW whar?" Which is probably why we broke up. Lol!

With my Nate we never fought. We are the same type of mellow. We would quietly discuss and one of us would agree to a compromise or just say deal with it. We both hated promises so we wouldnt swaer to never ... again lol.

We still adore each other but neither of us was helping the other be stable :hit
 

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Us two hard-headed cases will have been married 19 years this fall. :D

We balance each other most of the time.
 

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FarmerJamie said:
Us two hard-headed cases will have been married 19 years this fall. :D

We balance each other most of the time.
16 years here, and we usually work really well together. But, when he mowed over my spinach (that I had planned to take to market) and plowed up 1/4 of my peas (didn't ask where they were before plowing), and whacked off all the dogwoods (that I'd planned to put in early spring shares for bouquets), it got a bit old.
 

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Yes, it's funny how everything I plant and want to keep, he digs up so he can plant something else. My strawberries are gone, my beautiful day lilies and irises are gone, my lettuce that had already bolted is gone and I was feeding it a little at a time to the chickens. Errrrrrrggggggggrrrrrr.

I think our biggest problem is I'm at home now instead of working and he's used to being at home alone.
 

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I think there's a trend here :) I mentioned this to DH's elderly aunt, and she groaned. Her DH had just pulled out her apricot tree, which after 6 years had finally bloomed, and stuck in his apple tree in its place. Yikes! I do plenty of annoying things, but I would never just mow, plow or pull out things that DH had planted. Although I threatened to do just that many times this spring :D
 

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me&thegals said:
I think there's a trend here :) I mentioned this to DH's elderly aunt, and she groaned. Her DH had just pulled out her apricot tree, which after 6 years had finally bloomed, and stuck in his apple tree in its place. Yikes! I do plenty of annoying things, but I would never just mow, plow or pull out things that DH had planted. Although I threatened to do just that many times this spring :D
Maybe it's just me, DW has mowed over more of stuff I've planted than vice-versa. that wouldn't have worked there in that spot anyways :lol:
 
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