Wifezilla
Low-Carb Queen - RIP: 1963-2021
The role you think you will have as part of a couple and the role you end up with are not often the same thing. Hubby spent a few years as the house hubby with a part time job while I had the full time good paying job. Then when he had a better opportunity, I worked part time and he brought home the bacon.
I think having taken turns in the lead role we really appreciate the difficulties and rewards of working at home or working out in the big bad world. Both roles are important and neither should ever be taken for granted.
I think poor CJ just had a paradigm shift and it knocked him for a loop. Since he is, in your words, just a big girl, he saw himself more as the homemaker type. He didn't realize he was more of a modern woman type taking on the world, kicking a s s and taking names
Of course, it is so much easier to be that modern type when you can come home to your big strong man who made you dinner, listens to you rant for a bit and gives you safe shelter so you can recharge your batteries and head back out to take on the world another day. At least that is my experience.
Me growing up in neighborhood full of boys and hubby growing up with 4 sisters also helped. Traditional gender roles were never something we felt tied to and we have a pretty good understanding of each other's perspective.
I think having taken turns in the lead role we really appreciate the difficulties and rewards of working at home or working out in the big bad world. Both roles are important and neither should ever be taken for granted.
I think poor CJ just had a paradigm shift and it knocked him for a loop. Since he is, in your words, just a big girl, he saw himself more as the homemaker type. He didn't realize he was more of a modern woman type taking on the world, kicking a s s and taking names
Of course, it is so much easier to be that modern type when you can come home to your big strong man who made you dinner, listens to you rant for a bit and gives you safe shelter so you can recharge your batteries and head back out to take on the world another day. At least that is my experience.
Me growing up in neighborhood full of boys and hubby growing up with 4 sisters also helped. Traditional gender roles were never something we felt tied to and we have a pretty good understanding of each other's perspective.