I clicked on LOVE, but not with a smile. I know this decision has been gut wrenching for you, but your health and your wife's health require focus and dedication. Good decision.
My son came by yesterday and we had a good day together. Somewhere in the piles of totes is one that contains some games he would like to have. I tried to find where I thought they might be, to no avail. That was frustrating enough, but the wife was trying to be helpful to say "did you look here, look there.. ". Ugh, I won't say any more about my thoughts or our discussion afterwards.