Cassandra,
I see that you are frustrated right now and you feel like you are being the only adult in the family. If your husband is being disrespectful by taking you for granted then you need to mention your feelings to him. Give him more responsibilities so you don't carry them all. When he falls flat on his butt then he will love you more and appreciate what you do.
In regards to the video games, I like to play games and sometimes a game will take up five hours of my day. I have to only play once or twice a week. It's relaxing and it gives a person something to look forward to. If he is playing games every single day then you need to ask him to find time when everyone else is asleep or gone. He is robbing family time for his fun.
It's like quilting or beading for me, which I do when I have an idea. He needs to understand that there are other things he can be doing and spending his money on but don't take it completely away from him. It's what he likes to do.
As far as goals and aspirations, he probably does have them but can't explain them. But then again he might be happy and content where he is at and that says a lot for you because you are his world.
I see that you are frustrated right now and you feel like you are being the only adult in the family. If your husband is being disrespectful by taking you for granted then you need to mention your feelings to him. Give him more responsibilities so you don't carry them all. When he falls flat on his butt then he will love you more and appreciate what you do.
In regards to the video games, I like to play games and sometimes a game will take up five hours of my day. I have to only play once or twice a week. It's relaxing and it gives a person something to look forward to. If he is playing games every single day then you need to ask him to find time when everyone else is asleep or gone. He is robbing family time for his fun.
It's like quilting or beading for me, which I do when I have an idea. He needs to understand that there are other things he can be doing and spending his money on but don't take it completely away from him. It's what he likes to do.
As far as goals and aspirations, he probably does have them but can't explain them. But then again he might be happy and content where he is at and that says a lot for you because you are his world.