I too thought of you and your family all day yesterday. My heart goes out to you. There's nothing I can say to ease your pain - just know you have friends everywhere who are holding you in our hearts and prayers.
Oh my gosh, Jay, I just got on and saw what happened. I don't know what to say other than I'm glad they caught him and I know you'll get through this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
i know nothing anyone says can make it ok, but hopefully all our combined efforts will make your heart a bit lighter while you go through this terrible situation. i hope that you are able to find moments of peace in the coming days. you will remain in my thoughts.