Lorihadams-- hi guys...been busy!

[Denim Deb]

My daughter went to massage school. Do you think she'll give either or father or I a massage? Nope, she wants to be paid for it! I told her I have been paying for it, after all, it wasn't a free course. :/

 

[freemotion]

My daughter went to massage school. Do you think she'll give either or father or I a massage? Nope, she wants to be paid for it! I told her I have been paying for it, after all, it wasn't a free course. :/

Does she still live at home? I suggest you bill her, and offer that she pay for it with sessions!

 

[Denim Deb]

My daughter went to massage school. Do you think she'll give either or father or I a massage? Nope, she wants to be paid for it! I told her I have been paying for it, after all, it wasn't a free course. :/

Does she still live at home? I suggest you bill her, and offer that she pay for it with sessions!

Hubby won't do it.

 

[lorihadams]

I sooooo have to take a picture of my "fatties"...aka the meat birds. I have several that are ready to go next week...they're waddling. They are going through a bag of flock raiser every 2 days and a bag of cracked corn every 4 days. They are seriously eating me out of house and home.

Going to eat lunch with hubby today. We fought until almost 1am last night but we both said a lot that needed to be said. I cried so much my nose is all stopped up again.

He at least slept in the bed with me last night. He has always called me a "cat"....touch me when I want to be touched and otherwise leave me the hell alone.

I keep telling him that he is setting me up for failure because I try to be affectionate with him but there are always strings attached and then I can't cause I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and that I'm gonna disappoint him. I don't try to reject him but I can't make myself feel sexual if my body doesn't want to cooperate. I told him to imagine what it would be like if he hadn't been able to have an orgasm in 8 YEARS.

I think the fact that sex has never been an emotionally positive experience for me is a big thing too. It has always just felt like something I had to do. There have been chunks of time when it wasn't like that and I actually enjoyed it but then it always seems to go back to it becoming like a chore.

I also fussed at him for giving me a hard time for reading a book at night. I cuddle with him on the couch but if he falls asleep then I grab a book. Its not like I can go anywhere with 175lbs of husband laying on top of me snoring his head off.

I think we said a lot last night that needed to be said. Hopefully we both have a little better perspective on each others feelings.

Thank you everyone for all the advice....I really do appreciate it!

 

[keljonma]

Fireproof is great. And the Love Dare has a Bible study portion that our church sponsored for the community. We had a great turnout. I would recommend that for sure. I would also suggest Gary Chapman's book 5 Love Languages. It is written in plain English and is very good read!

 

[urban dreamer]

Here's to a better day today, tomorrow and the day after and the day after and so on.

 

[lorihadams]

MY BROTHER IS HERE!!!

 

[keljonma]

Have a blessed Thanksgiving!

 

[lorihadams]

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!!!

My brother and his husband and two great danes are here for the week. We have a photographer coming Saturday to do some family photos...Granny will be home with Maddie tomorrow so that will be fun.

I went to the grocery store last night and got 2-23+ lb turkeys for 27cents a lb. They cost me $6 or so. They are in the freezer now. I would like to grind them but if I thaw them out and grind them do I have to cook the ground meat before I freeze it again???

 

[urban dreamer]

Happy Turkey Day!

I don't think you have to cook the meat before you freeze it.