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pinkfox
Super Self-Sufficient
well its been a long, expensive but good past couple of days...
on friday my computer whent the way of the dodo...the screen was literaly hanging on by a thread and on friday afternoon, my makeshift wedge shifted slightly, the screen slipped and the wire from the computer to the screen (one of 4 holding the screen to the body) snapped...it was so badly frayed that dad says theres no way we could fix it...
today i splurged and got myself a new laptop. i justified the spending by 1 putting it on my 12 months no interest card and 2 telling myself i need it. given the telephone situation my laptop wil be acting as primary communications device for anyone i wish to talk to that doesnt have ATT services.
SKYPE will be my new "home phone" for the most part.
i also ordered my new cellphone. despite my best efforts T-mobile is simply not embraced in the south lol, or at least not in the area im in and i need to drive about 25 mins form my new house before tmobile signal returns...
being my cellphone will be my other primary phone, thats not doable.
So i took advantage of my dads discount through his company, and my cellphone bill will be about the same as my membership to the Y has been costing me...
I ordered their basic nationwide plan, which should give me plenty of mins for general as needed for house calls, and it has free ATT to ATT. i splurged on next day shipping so it will be here tomorrow, and i "splurged" on the phone itself ordering an entry level data capable...not that i will be using or ordering a data plan (i opted out on text and picture mesaging) but it was one of the few phones they had that was free with a new 2 yr contract that did not require a data plan at all...and its very similar to the blackberry im currnelty using now so i will have a detailed calander and can set "time to eat" alarms and keep track of my apointments easier...
had my frineds wedding yesterday...was a very nice service, none denominational mildly pagan which was nice...got to see some people i havent and dont get to see in a very long time. everyone was very curious about my move...and only 2 people threw mild hissy fits by the end of the afternoon. the Bride, and one of her bridesmaids, both were teary telling me i cant go...but they are also the ones who only call me back if they need something...
or always make excuses at to why they cant come see me...cause im "too far away" but aparently i own a tardis because instad i should go see them...ect. so while i apreciate the sentiment...its like...where were you a year ago.
the people who acted all upset were the ones who claimed this is so out of the blue...the others were like "umm...youe been talking about this for about 3 years now..." lol...kinda shows who realy listens when i speak.
after the wedding some other frineds hosted the after party, good night but again, the 2 teary eyed "best friends" who insist i cant go cause they dont know what to do without me...were also the ones that made no attempt to spend any time with me...they know im leaving on tuesday and that this was probably their last chance to realy hang out...but neither made the effort.
instead i spent the night with folks i dont get to see often, chatting having fun and feeling very blessed to have some real people in my life...people who said they dont ant to see me leave but want to see my happy.
all in all it was a very good night...eye opening...and actually probably the best way it could go.
i didnt come away feeling sad about leaving everyone behind...i didnt feel sad i wouldnt see them for a while...instead i felt good about starting a new chapter, and not dealing with the games anymore.
tomorrow ive got a drs apointment for the last of my 3 B12 shots, then another friend is supposed to be comming over for the afternoon...still have to confirm shes comming.
i have to call the truck company tomorrow if i dont hear from them before my apt to see what the pick up window is for tuesday.
and tomorrow brings about, the dismantling of the cabinates that are comming with (i forgot im taking the genny so i figure flat pack the cabinates to make space for the generator...
taking the TV down from the wall
and gathering the last minute stuff/packing the case.
tomorrow (once ive got the pick up window) also includes the finalization of the route, and hotel room booking
i also need to go pick up a bottle of rescue remedy.
Oh and i need to move the tank stand and 55 gal tank to the front of the house ready for pick up...
and we need to unearth and semi dismantle the futon. (its currently burried in my sisters room)
tuesday morning then will be a case of move jack jack into the crate. rescue remedy the cats and crate them (or ill never find tempi once the door opens), pack my car, get the truck sorted and were off.
if the truck is due late i might decide to head out weds, but id rather get out of here asap and just get there...
however ill also play that by the "probable delivery date" of the moving truck. dont want to be sat in the house for a week with no furniture...more importantly though, dont want to be sat around with jack jack locked in a relitivly small dog crate for too long.
ill tel you something though.
this past few weeks have gone by incredibly quickly.
new chapter of my life starts soon and im rely nervous and excited.
on friday my computer whent the way of the dodo...the screen was literaly hanging on by a thread and on friday afternoon, my makeshift wedge shifted slightly, the screen slipped and the wire from the computer to the screen (one of 4 holding the screen to the body) snapped...it was so badly frayed that dad says theres no way we could fix it...
today i splurged and got myself a new laptop. i justified the spending by 1 putting it on my 12 months no interest card and 2 telling myself i need it. given the telephone situation my laptop wil be acting as primary communications device for anyone i wish to talk to that doesnt have ATT services.
SKYPE will be my new "home phone" for the most part.
i also ordered my new cellphone. despite my best efforts T-mobile is simply not embraced in the south lol, or at least not in the area im in and i need to drive about 25 mins form my new house before tmobile signal returns...
being my cellphone will be my other primary phone, thats not doable.
So i took advantage of my dads discount through his company, and my cellphone bill will be about the same as my membership to the Y has been costing me...
I ordered their basic nationwide plan, which should give me plenty of mins for general as needed for house calls, and it has free ATT to ATT. i splurged on next day shipping so it will be here tomorrow, and i "splurged" on the phone itself ordering an entry level data capable...not that i will be using or ordering a data plan (i opted out on text and picture mesaging) but it was one of the few phones they had that was free with a new 2 yr contract that did not require a data plan at all...and its very similar to the blackberry im currnelty using now so i will have a detailed calander and can set "time to eat" alarms and keep track of my apointments easier...
had my frineds wedding yesterday...was a very nice service, none denominational mildly pagan which was nice...got to see some people i havent and dont get to see in a very long time. everyone was very curious about my move...and only 2 people threw mild hissy fits by the end of the afternoon. the Bride, and one of her bridesmaids, both were teary telling me i cant go...but they are also the ones who only call me back if they need something...
or always make excuses at to why they cant come see me...cause im "too far away" but aparently i own a tardis because instad i should go see them...ect. so while i apreciate the sentiment...its like...where were you a year ago.
the people who acted all upset were the ones who claimed this is so out of the blue...the others were like "umm...youe been talking about this for about 3 years now..." lol...kinda shows who realy listens when i speak.
after the wedding some other frineds hosted the after party, good night but again, the 2 teary eyed "best friends" who insist i cant go cause they dont know what to do without me...were also the ones that made no attempt to spend any time with me...they know im leaving on tuesday and that this was probably their last chance to realy hang out...but neither made the effort.
instead i spent the night with folks i dont get to see often, chatting having fun and feeling very blessed to have some real people in my life...people who said they dont ant to see me leave but want to see my happy.
all in all it was a very good night...eye opening...and actually probably the best way it could go.
i didnt come away feeling sad about leaving everyone behind...i didnt feel sad i wouldnt see them for a while...instead i felt good about starting a new chapter, and not dealing with the games anymore.
tomorrow ive got a drs apointment for the last of my 3 B12 shots, then another friend is supposed to be comming over for the afternoon...still have to confirm shes comming.
i have to call the truck company tomorrow if i dont hear from them before my apt to see what the pick up window is for tuesday.
and tomorrow brings about, the dismantling of the cabinates that are comming with (i forgot im taking the genny so i figure flat pack the cabinates to make space for the generator...
taking the TV down from the wall
and gathering the last minute stuff/packing the case.
tomorrow (once ive got the pick up window) also includes the finalization of the route, and hotel room booking
i also need to go pick up a bottle of rescue remedy.
Oh and i need to move the tank stand and 55 gal tank to the front of the house ready for pick up...
and we need to unearth and semi dismantle the futon. (its currently burried in my sisters room)
tuesday morning then will be a case of move jack jack into the crate. rescue remedy the cats and crate them (or ill never find tempi once the door opens), pack my car, get the truck sorted and were off.
if the truck is due late i might decide to head out weds, but id rather get out of here asap and just get there...
however ill also play that by the "probable delivery date" of the moving truck. dont want to be sat in the house for a week with no furniture...more importantly though, dont want to be sat around with jack jack locked in a relitivly small dog crate for too long.
ill tel you something though.
this past few weeks have gone by incredibly quickly.
new chapter of my life starts soon and im rely nervous and excited.