Abifae - Ciao Babies!

[abifae]

I was just being amused at how many people know what an a-hole I can be... who are shocked when I am one. I am easy to get along with if things go my way. If they don't, I just quietly refuse everything. Which, for some people, ends friendships. Others, like Auntie, just snigger and say, this is just how I do it! with equal calm stubbornness.

I wonder why I can tell people I am an ass, they giggle when I calmly tell off someone else or just refuse to budge, but they cannot cope when it turns on them?

All my long lasting friends just ignore me and carry on. I can go with them or be a butt head all by myself. Easy peasy. I sometimes think my ego is too big for weaker folk. I engulf them. And mock them, silently.

I'm pretty awesome.

Imooto and Boy are both very like me in this. We greatly enjoy one another's company. They aren't scared of me!!!! Woot! People scared of me just entice me to attack. I am not mature enough to resist. Lol!

Ahhh random 1 am thoughts as my roommate carefully avoids me. It isnt personal. He hides from everyone. But gosh it makes me wanna light him on fire.

Did I say that out loud?

 

[AnnaRaven]

Did I say that out loud?

Yes dear, that was your "outside voice". ;-)

 

[Farmfresh]

I was just being amused at how many people know what an a-hole I can be... who are shocked when I am one. I am easy to get along with if things go my way. If they don't, I just quietly refuse everything. Which, for some people, ends friendships. Others, like Auntie, just snigger and say, this is just how I do it! with equal calm stubbornness.

I wonder why I can tell people I am an ass, they giggle when I calmly tell off someone else or just refuse to budge, but they cannot cope when it turns on them?

All my long lasting friends just ignore me and carry on. I can go with them or be a butt head all by myself. Easy peasy. I sometimes think my ego is too big for weaker folk. I engulf them. And mock them, silently.

I'm pretty awesome.

Imooto and Boy are both very like me in this. We greatly enjoy one another's company. They aren't scared of me!!!! Woot! People scared of me just entice me to attack. I am not mature enough to resist. Lol!

Ahhh random 1 am thoughts as my roommate carefully avoids me. It isnt personal. He hides from everyone. But gosh it makes me wanna light him on fire.

Did I say that out loud?

First of all - BOYS are a-holes ... we GIRLS are B's.

I think one of my best character traits is the ability to ignore and forget. I never have understood anyone who holds a grudge. Too much work for me. My MIL (who is now dead) and my Aunt B. are two people like that. Do some little thing that offends and they will hate you forever and never forget. Especially my Aunt B. to her there are two kinds of people those that are perfect and she loves them (they can NEVER do anything wrong in her sight) or the people who need to die a flaming death (and she is NOT afraid to say that in HER outside voice and often VERY loudly).

I have two groups that I love to wage secret wars on - (no outright attacks here, just physiological torments <where is an evil smiley when you need one>) the Better-that-you's and the Sneakers. Nothing irritates me more than a person who is so superior in their own mind. Also someone who is always trying to "get one over" and manipulate other people.

 

[Wifezilla]

Abi is a lot like max when she is in one of her moods. I treat them the same way. Calm. Mildly amused. Distract them with a bright shiny object...

 

[MyKidLuvsGreenEgz]

Thanks. Highly entertaining reading here. Remind me to never get on your bad side. *whiney* --> But you seemed so very nice at the restaurant!

 

[colowyo0809]

That's awesome.

And now for the most entertaining movie of the year: Hysteria ... rather naughty so if you are easily offended... why are you on MY blog anyway? LOL

O M G!!! I want to see this movie!!! That is farking awesome!!

 

[abifae]

First of all - BOYS are a-holes ... we GIRLS are B's.

Surely I have enough male traits to be a-holes!!!

I think one of my best character traits is the ability to ignore and forget. I never have understood anyone who holds a grudge. Too much work for me.

I don't hold grudges. I can hardly stay annoyed for seconds on end. Just same people hit annoyance over and over and over and over....



I've actually never forgiven anyone before though. I just say "this, therefore, is the person you are. I wasn't aware" and I can then choose to interact (or not), based on this new knowledge. There's no reason to forgive. I just didn't realize I was putting myself in the position to put up with that from the person. Now I know and can make a more informed choice.

I have two groups that I love to wage secret wars on - (no outright attacks here, just physiological torments <where is an evil smiley when you need one>) the Better-that-you's and the Sneakers. Nothing irritates me more than a person who is so superior in their own mind. Also someone who is always trying to "get one over" and manipulate other people.

LOL!! On my autism group, I was just emailed to never talk to someone again because I'm so mean.

She was going on about flirting and how anyone who does it is bad and evil. So I told her that her fear was making her an idiot. LOL.

I don't try to "get one over" but I fully admit manipulating people at work is GREAT FUN!!! Now that I learned how to do the voices, changing their emotional state cracks me up. I'm like, are you in SO LITTLE control of yourself that you are letting ME control you? ME??? I don't even know what DECADE this is half the time!!! (Seriously. If you ask me the year, I'm as likely to say 1984 as 1998 or 2001....)

What if one is superior in her own mind and everyone acknowledges this? *tries to stay on FF's good side* lol!

Abi is a lot like max when she is in one of her moods. I treat them the same way. Calm. Mildly amused. Distract them with a bright shiny object...

Hey! Are you saying I'm autistic?

Calm = good. Amused = good. I'm usually amused at me when I'm having a meltdown. I sit back, outside of my head, and watch and snigger "srsly? Um. Just... srsly? bwahahaha"

But you seemed so very nice at the restaurant!

I get that a lot. But things were going MY WAY!!! I wasn't stressed

*digs in her stubborn little heels and snarls at everyone*

O M G!!!

Yeh. The BDSM group I'm in posted it as a group outting. *laughing* Along with wondering how many outlets were in the theater... Interactive cult flick, like Rocky?

 

[abifae]

WOOT! Dancing was awesome. Gave up on groceries. Doing laundry instead.

Tomorrow I have dyeing to do. And the rest of chores. Ugh. I need to put in fresh litter but I need a ride for that one. Kinda heavy.

 

[Farmfresh]

I don't try to "get one over" but I fully admit manipulating people at work is GREAT FUN!!!

Now you are talking about a different animal - manipulation as sport! I enjoy THAT game.

By the way my D1 is not autistic, but she is still easily distracted from a tantrum by something shiny.

 

[abifae]

Now you are talking about a different animal - manipulation as sport! I enjoy THAT game.

By the way my D1 is not autistic, but she is still easily distracted from a tantrum by something shiny.

*laughs* It is a great sport. bwahahaha!

Shiny = win. I distract my nieces that way, too.