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Henrietta23
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Not yet. Since I've barely been home this week I haven't done much with it so it's piling up. My mom is taking a quart of milk and one of yogurt twice a week. I consider it payback for picking up DS and lots of free babysitting. It looks like I'll be making a lot more mozzarella (string cheese for school!) and yogurt so I'm sure it won't be long. Daisy is on that milk stand every chance she gets. I swear she knows what goes on there and can't wait to be milked. I sure it's all about the grain but still, she is too cute. As soon as she can get her head into the hole I'll give her bits of grain in the dish. Now I just hold some in my hand and let her eat while standing there. She's very comfortable up there.freemotion said:Woohoo on the goat's milk! Are you finding yet that one lactating goat is not enough?
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Done with camp- I get my life back!! We had great weather except for yesterday morning's rain. But what is Scout camp without some rain, right? It builds character. Most of our toughest kids made great improvements, including the one who missed the first day. He didn't have any tantrums today and I don't think I heard him whine once. That was HUGE. One of the littler guys had a really rough day. His mom was with him which made it worse instead of better. He melted down at least three times and she didn't handle it well. They got to try to earn a special patch in BB by earning enough points for it. He didn't even come close but couldn't get why he didn't get the patch. He wasn't the only who didn't earn it. It was about 50/50. But "it wasn't fair!!!!" Sigh. No one could help him through it. I hoped his mother would just ignore the tantrum but she didn't. I had to leave the area it got so frustrating to watch. He also melted down at archery because we had a different instructor and she did things just a little differently. He couldn't accept the change. I think if Mom hadn't been there one of the leaders could have taken him aside and helped him. I can't even remember what the third tantrum was about.
I did make one of my own Scouts cry.... I felt awful. He was bossing around one of the boys from another pack. I didn't get the whole story but apparently this other boy doesn't have an official diagnosis but his mother told their leader that she believes he's probably got Asperger's Syndrome. He's a great kid, fun to work with, but quirky. And one of his things is being bossed around by other kids. My Scout was really just trying to be encouraging and helpful but the other boy started to lose it. He did tell A. to stop but when A. didn't realize that the boy was trying to say, "I need some space" and tried to help even more, the other boy hit the tackle box he was carrying. A. still didn't stop and I could see the boy winding up to smack him. So I told A. "Back away now!" I got the group headed back to our area and got the boy settled down and then realized that A. thought I was mad at him. So I called him away from the group to talk, telling him was definitely NOT in trouble and I wanted to explain. He still started to tear up and I felt just awful. I couldn't tell him much of course but I know he's got all different types of kids in his class. So I just explained that I knew this boy seriously didn't like being told what to do by other kids and that I was worried that he was going to hit A. so while it sounded like I was yelling at him I was actually trying to protect him. He's a smart kid and understood. I gave him some space to pull himself together and we were fine. And for the rest of the day I watched him being very kind and patient and not a bit bossy to this other boy. Some kids might have avoided him so as to not push his buttons. Not A. He went out of his way to find a way to be helpful that this boy could accept. Made my day!
Wow, that was a ramble! My own DS had a great time, so I did as well. I could never have done it being in such bad shape last summer. By today I was walking up the nasty hill to swimming without really feeling it.