Quail_Antwerp: Words from the Barnyard...

Dace

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Morning Sweetie....I just wanted to send some warm thoughts your way this morning.

As everyone has already said, you are very strong and you and E are doing all the right things.

The goal of the crime is to not get caught....cards were stacked against you finding out. Most people don't have a clue until their child speaks up.

Of course your DD didn't make this up, she has no reason to.

You are teaching her how to handle problems in life, step up and take action. You are a great mom, don't oyu dare doubt yourself! :hugs
 

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I am SO glad that you are there and supporting your daughter. That is the important thing here. So many mothers just pretend like it never happened. No matter what happens with him, at least she will know without a doubt that you are there for her. :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs
 

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Round here, even murderers in lockdown will go out of their way to make life a living h-e-double hocky sticks for someone who is in for molestation. Even being in separate facilities can't stop it.

Our capitol city posts billboards of people like this. Their face, 20' tall at major intersections with a short rundown of their crimes.

:hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs

Praying for you guys.
 

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We're working on school work, but I just wanted to drop ya'll a quick note to say thanks for the support, and to say that DD slept sound last night.

When she got up this morning I asked if she'd had any bad dreams last night. She said Nope, and smiled. I hugged her and told her I loved her, and she said she feels better since she told us.

But we've also had a talk with all of the kids this morning and we told them that if another adult ever does anything that scares them or hurts them, to make sure they tell us. We told them especially if that adult tells them "don't tell anyone".

I'm emotionally better today - as far as not hysterical - not as angry - but still very upset and grieved for my DD.

Thanks everyone. we'll get through this.

and hopefully he'll be in jail.
 

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Quail, you are such a good mother! :hugs

I thought about you last night and what I would have done if I were you and your daughter was my daughter. I don't think I would have done anything different than what you did. :)
 

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:hugs Oh, honey, I'm so sorry this happened to your DD. You did all the right things....counseling will help, for you and her. Hopefully he will get what he deserves and it won't get swept under the rug. :hugs
 

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:hugs

I guess it's not a very Christian thing for me to say that I hope the other inmates get to him when he gets to prison...so I won't say it. I'll just think it really really hard.

:hugs to you and DD.
 
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