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SSDreamin

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Well, I have to admit, my kitchen will have to be a LOT cleaner before I take any pictures of my new opening, because it is all on display now!

Now, say what you want, call me a bragger, I don't care, I am just so proud I have to tell ya: My little girls gave me 9 eggs yesterday! Plus 8 the day before, and 8 the day before that! :weee Out of 9 little ladies, and several-inches-of-snow-on-the-ground cold, I think that is fantastic! Hubby says it's because they love him and all the stuff he's done for them :rolleyes:

OK, I'm done bragging.

We spent this past weekend working on the house, surprise! DH managed to clean out/declutter the 'game room', so named for its possible future use but used up until this weekend as a catchall for anything and everything. He also finished up the last of the shelving he was building, and took time out to hang the two repurposed items on their respective walls. DH had built DS#2 a nice, small bookcase years ago, far too small for the collection of personal books my son has now. I had thought of just using it as a nightstand, but decided it would be more useful turned on its side, mounted to the wall, and used as a TV stand/video game system holder. I know, none of those things are very SS, but so be it. I think it looks awesome! The other, a large wooden lug box, DH put new pulls (purely decorative) on it, then mounted it on the wall. I filled it right up with some of my cookbooks! Right now, it looks neat, but seems too high on the wall, but I plan to mount a quilt holder to the bottom of it, to display my favorite quilt, that I have yet to make! :p

I have to tell a story, that will point out what life - and construction - is kind of like with my hubby. He found the rug, that goes under the dining table, in the 'game room' and asked me to help him move the table and lay it down. We moved the chairs, he pulled the table, then asked me to put down the rug. I did. He asked me to straighten it. I did. He said it was not straight, it must line up perfectly to the diamond laid tile that is in the room. :rolleyes: I did it. He 'fixed' my straightening job, then asked me to help him align the table EXACTLY in the center of the rug. I pointed out that one dinner and a horse-dog brushing by it will ruin all his hard work. He insisted it be "squared, if only for a moment". Can you say OCD?! So, how do I deal with this, you may ask? I laugh and walk away. When he builds something, I know it will last forever and be sturdy. I also know that if I have to 'help' too much, I'll pull all my hair out! Love the man, but sometimes he can be....hard to deal with :lol: He is a wonderful husband and father. His boss adores his meticulous attention to detail - believe it or not, at work, he will come in under time and under budget 9 times out of 10! He builds bridges, and I know every bridge he has built is as safe as they get. I just feel very sorry for the guys that work for him! :gig
 

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My DH is the same way! It was a great thing when he had his fiberglass repair business but not so great when dealing with me!!!!

What kind of chickens do you have (besides grateful ones)?
 

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Six buff's and 3 Columbian Wyandottes.

It is hard - I love to help him, and learn, there are times my patience wears out (or his behavior goes into overdrive) and I just have to walk away. In his defense, DH doesn't flip out or anything. On the other hand, ask me why I don't hang picture's or put groceries away in the cupboards :lol:
 

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I think all of our husbands must be related. Only, mine doesn't normally finish jobs that he starts-and I'm the one that has to deal w/it! :barnie
 

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In our family, I am the perfectionistic, OCD'ed, partner - and you can add in demanding. I am thankful every day that my husband puts up with me. I find his lack of perfectionism a bit irritating. But we are a good couple. We complement one another. I keep things high quality and he keeps things tranquil.
Glad you and your husband complement one another so well.
 

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:woot I got my pullman bread pan yesterday, and decided to get a pain de mie recipe from KAF and give it a go. So far, it has passed the pickiest person in the family test (DS#2 :rolleyes: ). He says it looks just like store bought but tastes much better! :weee Next test will be hubby. He has decided that he only wants homemade bread for his lunches, and his only complaint has been that my well rounded loaves didn't fit well in his sandwich keeper. Not only will this loaf fit perfectly, I can get 22-24 slices from the same amount of dough that I have been getting 16 slices from in the old pans! :thumbsup
 

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Thanks for checking in Rathbone! My computer was giving me fits, then my internet went down :( I need to get less 'attached' to this crazy thing!

Hubby loves the new bread I baked in the pullman! I also received the new lock-n-lock bread boxes in the mail today, so we are all set for keeping the family in homemade bread!

DH told me, in our nightly phone call last night, that he has found out some interesting things about his coworkers since I've started sending homemade bread to work with him. It has opened the door for conversations about the things THEY do - such as the automotive genius guy who cans all kinds of things, and gave a few tips for him to pass along to me on a couple things I haven't had great luck with. Automotive genius guy was also very interested in some of my dehydrator 'experiments' - he has only used his for jerky, but wants to try other things. Another guy - we'll call him big guy - has begun asking questions about how to get started/get his SO interested in this 'lifestyle'. DH's boss also refers to Ice Cream as his cow, as DH has picked his brain about different things (he has a herd of beef cattle and a small herd of milkers). DH says that, if hubby hasn't mentioned her in a while, Boss will ask "How's my cow doing?" :lol:

I have been enjoying the unseasonably warm weather! Cleaned out the cow pen completely, covered the strawberry bed, cleaned up the yard and now only need to wrap my fruit trees!

In 'other' news, the people we talked with about buying our house down South called - promised to have a yes or no answer for us by this weekend. DH went down last Saturday to replace some trim and check on things, and our old neighbor came by to tell him that, if the other people decide not to buy it, they have someone VERY interested in it. Those people are SO wonderful!! DH also left them a key - so they could show the possible buyer the inside, and let any worker or repairman in that we may need to send over there. Makes me so happy! I don't have to drive 3 hours to let somebody in! :weee Love those neighbors!
Unfortunately, we are having continuing trouble with the people who bought our old house up here :( I had to begin forfeiture proceedings against them yesterday, and will more than likely have to begin court proceedings once the time is expired on that. Due to us having to carry the total burden on that house (they have not paid for 7 months, plus we've had to pay insurance and 2 years worth of taxes), I will have to do all of it w/o a lawyer. We can't afford a $2,000 retainer, so it will be up to me. I have done self representation before (in my divorce). I get very nervous in front of a judge. I know they hate to have people like me in their court, because we usually aren't well versed or properly prepared, but I did my best with the divorce and will do my best this time. The very hardest part this time will be service of summons/complaint. It should be served in person. I have asked for a family member to accompany me - a family member who has a CCP. Any farther service, or eviction, will be done by the Sheriff's office, thankfully. I just have to remind myself to keep my mouth shut - ugly arguments usually find their way into court, and will definitely be used against me. Plus, since they haven't been paying, they will probably be able to afford an attorney :/
The sad part of all this is, those people made us jump through all sorts of legal hoops, so they wouldn't get 'ripped off' with the deal :rolleyes:
This whole mess is making me sick to my stomach! We even sent them a letter, offering to PAY them to leave, so all this could be avoided. I guess it may help us in the long run - no judge can say we haven't given them every opportunity to catch up or get out. We've sent them 14 letters in 3 years- asking for payment, asking them to pay insurance and taxes, offering to move a payment to the end of the loan if they needed, and finally offering payment to leave. What else could we have done? Continue paying and letting them live there for free? :he
 

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Hope it all gets settled easily. :hugs
 
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