Shiloh Acres
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Thanks, Bee and Wannabefree.
Good point, Bee. I see what you mean. It can be hard to be in the midst of things and remain "separate".
And I hadn't thought about pride, but I think that's a good point too. I am not sure about anyone else, but God has dealt with me early and often about spiritual pride ... all I can say is I hope I learned my lesson long ago.
And I always want to remember my lessons. Some of them are painful to relearn!!!
But it's especially a good point, thinking about a situation I am dealing with. I have a friend I have loved like a sister all my life, though we took very different paths. She has *finally* (Praise God!) gotten over a lifetime of being angry with God and started seeking Him. But we are very, very different in our lifestyles. I try to spend time with her, and do so as humbly as possible, so as NOT to seem in any way like I am coming off as "holier" than her, or above her in any way. I don't feel that I am, by the way, but I don't want her noticing the differences and thinking that I feel like I'm better than her. So ... while I'm not dealing with pride there, I also want to be sure she doesn't think I am either.
Incidentally, it comes right back at Bee's point. My friend is still living the life I did when I was a teenager, and I do watch to be sure that the influence doesn't cause me to slip in any way. When that used to be you, even long, long ago, I was surprised to find that you still have to watch the way you speak, etc.
And in her case, it's not even a matter of restoring one who was of the faith who has slipped, but rather trying to lift up one who hasn't yet really made it out. I do love her dearly, though.
And BB, I can see Wannabefree thinks a lot. I just tend to think of a lot of questions. I love reading what she writes too.
Good point, Bee. I see what you mean. It can be hard to be in the midst of things and remain "separate".
And I hadn't thought about pride, but I think that's a good point too. I am not sure about anyone else, but God has dealt with me early and often about spiritual pride ... all I can say is I hope I learned my lesson long ago.
And I always want to remember my lessons. Some of them are painful to relearn!!!
But it's especially a good point, thinking about a situation I am dealing with. I have a friend I have loved like a sister all my life, though we took very different paths. She has *finally* (Praise God!) gotten over a lifetime of being angry with God and started seeking Him. But we are very, very different in our lifestyles. I try to spend time with her, and do so as humbly as possible, so as NOT to seem in any way like I am coming off as "holier" than her, or above her in any way. I don't feel that I am, by the way, but I don't want her noticing the differences and thinking that I feel like I'm better than her. So ... while I'm not dealing with pride there, I also want to be sure she doesn't think I am either.
Incidentally, it comes right back at Bee's point. My friend is still living the life I did when I was a teenager, and I do watch to be sure that the influence doesn't cause me to slip in any way. When that used to be you, even long, long ago, I was surprised to find that you still have to watch the way you speak, etc.
And in her case, it's not even a matter of restoring one who was of the faith who has slipped, but rather trying to lift up one who hasn't yet really made it out. I do love her dearly, though.
And BB, I can see Wannabefree thinks a lot. I just tend to think of a lot of questions. I love reading what she writes too.