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I would ask them to supply the equipment as well.
Just a hint about them paying for some therapy might get the job done.
Just a hint about them paying for some therapy might get the job done.
I toured the Hershey Montessori School in Huntsburg, Ohio for the National Solar and Alternative Energy Tour. It was a working farm that employed solar, geothermal and just about everything imaginable.big brown horse said:(Again, another reason I love Montessori schools, children can move around the classroom to get a task done. Too bad public schools rely on the "stillness of young children" to teach the masses. It sounds to me that your son is very smart and probably bored. )
In everything else, we talk. For this one, I am trying to assess it without talking to him about it too much. I'm concerned about handing him excuses, because that is his personality, and I'm concerned about labeling him. In fact, this whole process of trying to figure out what's going on is worrying me in that it could make him feel odd, studied, assessed, somehow "not quite right."big brown horse said:I guess the point I'm making is have you just asked your son? Not saying it is his decision to make at such a young age, just seeing if it bothers him that he can't pay attention. What does he tell you?
But, if you *are* seriously considering medication, you do not have to use any labels or excuses. Just, "there is a pill that sometimes helps kids who have trouble concentrating in class; it has to be taken X times a day and has X side effects some times; does that sound like something you would be interested in trying?"me&thegals said:I am trying to assess it without talking to him about it too much. I'm concerned about handing him excuses, because that is his personality, and I'm concerned about labeling him.
I think it would be a big mistake to do something because some comment from some school psychologist makes you feel rushed. There is TIME. There is NO hurry at all.I didn't feel rushed until last night, when the child psychiatrist urged us to get him on medication ASAP until he could see him 1 month from now. What? Really?
You know, I think to a considerable extent, other things in life can substitute for the things you're supposed to be learning in school, when school is dull and uninteresting. I forget what you've said before, does your son have a hobby or activity that he is really 'into', or does he have some subject area that he is actively taking responsibility for learning about just b/c he wants to, or some enterprise that interests him (selling eggs, building things, whatever)?I worry about how to address the whole "school is not very interesting for a lot of kids" issue. If my child is going to continue in public school, I need to be really cautious about stomping all over his teacher's toes. I tried to gently and courteously mention in our meeting Mon that perhaps some parts of school are simply a bit monotonous. While his teacher agreed, she certainly expected compliance anyways.
Very, very true. My foremost concern is not his grades but his level of frustration and anger, his lack of many things to feel great about during the school year. He gets up at 6:15 and spends the next at least 12 hour getting ready for school, in school, or doing homework after school. It doesn't leave much time for the things he enjoys.patandchickens said:There are certainly plenty of people in the world whose school performance was 'lackluster' but who went on to be very successful people, both economically and in terms of personal fulfillment, because they found important and wortwhile things to get involved with *outside of* school. And remember, school grades (as such) really do not have much affect on your life except that for a few years they affect what if any college you can get into. (If enough time elapses between high school and applying to college, even h.s. grades don't matter much!