patandchickens
Crazy Cat Lady
FWIW, what I'm hearing you say is that you are not sure which would affect your son more positively/adversely... medicating/labelling, or continuing things somewhat as they are now.
Since that boils down to "what would make him feel happier about the situation", and only HE knows that, it probably would be really useful to just ASK HIM
Personally if it were my son I am 100% sure that what I'd actually be asking him would be whether he wanted to try homeschooling instead, but obviously that is not always an option
Best of luck, you *will* find a solution that works for you both,
Pat
Since that boils down to "what would make him feel happier about the situation", and only HE knows that, it probably would be really useful to just ASK HIM
Personally if it were my son I am 100% sure that what I'd actually be asking him would be whether he wanted to try homeschooling instead, but obviously that is not always an option
Best of luck, you *will* find a solution that works for you both,
Pat