Lorihadams-- hi guys...been busy!

[TanksHill]

Hi Lori, just stopping by to say hi!

I am sorry the pillow pet is making your life miserable. Next time have the kids wash them by hand. Maybe they won't like them so much.

good to hear Granny is doing well and on the mend.

I hope you have a great day!!

g

 

[lorihadams]

Thanks....well last evening my 5 yr old son went hunting with me. He was bored after about 5 minutes but I refused to go back home....2 1/2 hrs later we had played with the rattle bag, grunt call, binoculars, coloring book and crayons I brought, my cell phone, leaves outside the tree stand......and he had gas the whole time

He did a good job though but I don't expect he'll go with me again anytime soon

Today I woke up with a sore throat so I'm just catching up on laundry and taking it easy. Hubby refinished a free rocking chair we got from an old neighbor and I have to find some fabric for the seat. I'm soaking beans for a pot of soup tomorrow and made some coleslaw for dinner. I'm gonna heat up some hamburgers and call it a day.

I hurt all over so I may take a bath with some epsom salts tonight. I posted some pics of some fun craft projects on the christmas gift thread in the homemade products section....go check 'em out!

 

[Denim Deb]

Wouldn't the bath work better w/water instead of epsom salt, or w/the epsom salt?

 

[dragonlaurel]

Epsom salts are wonderful for sore muscles.
I just realized how you said that. Brat !

 

[Blackbird]

I think somebody is on a roll with the jokes today.

Hope that bath helps Lori!

 

[ohiofarmgirl]

hey Lori!

feeling better today?

 

[lorihadams]

well....I felt better after my long hot bath in WATER and Epsom salts....yuck yuck yuck

Then my husband got the grand idea to piss me off about the whole sex thing again and I ended up beating him.....I am not kidding....I laid in the bed and hit him over and over until he finally sat up and grabbed me by the wrists and held me down.

Now, I am not a violent person but I can only take so much before I snap. That coupled with the fact that I have not had bread or cake in 3 days and it is just too much. I can only tell him so many times that it is not about him...it's not that I don't want to have sex with HIM, it's that I don't want to have sex with ANYBODY...not even myself. He constantly tells me to just be honest and tell him I don't love him anymore. Are you kidding me?

 

[Jen-pi]

I have gone through what you are going through.
This is the way I look at it...

Men sometimes just need sex. Just like it doesnt take much at all to get them turned on, it doesnt take much to satisfy them either. I think they just need to ejaculate and they dont care how long it takes them, how you feel about the whole thing, if your kegs are shaved, if you havent showered in two days or if you keep your shirt and sox on.

Just get him in the bathroom, lock the door and tell him to lay down, and ride him like Seattle Slew. He will appreciate your spontaneity (even though you just want to get it over with) and he should leave you alone for a couple days.

I know this is no cure (if there even is one), but it works for the male species, and, you just might gradually learn to like it again.

 

[PamsPride]

Wow! Your DH really doesn't get it does he??

 

[MorelCabin]

Lori, a mans love language is most often sex...and they do take it personally when their wives don't respond to them.
I am not huge on the idea of sex anymore either, and just as my levels dropped, hubby's kicked in.
If you know what is good for your marriage you will just give in three times a week and even pretend to enjoy it if you have to.
...and I have to say by the way...it IS all about your husband...you are a stay at home mom aren't you?
Not that I am not sympathetic, believe me I am...I could go weeks or months without sex at this stage of the game...LOVE when my period comes cause I have a week off that I know I can sleep thru the night without being woken and ridden so to speak...
But I adore my husband, and the 15 minutes three days a week that I spend making sure he is pleased, isn't really that big of an investment considering all he does for me.

Maybe I missed something, and maybe your husband did something that is really interfering with your ability to love him right now ( I didn't go back that far) But if not, then just love him the way he feels loved. It really does make life alot easier